13 Jun 2012

Why People Leave Our Lives?

All the life we meet and lose some nice people. Some people pass through our lives and we don't even realize they were there beside us, while some people stay forever engraved in our hearts.  But there comes a time when those people have played certain role in our lives and they walk away, like they've never known us.  Later we will meet   some other people,which can be better or worse of those who have left us.  And their departure leave us with millions unanswered questions and with the grief in our hearts, we wonder why people leave,and usually those who have meant a lot to us, with whom we have shared both, good and bad and right and wrong.. And they usually leave when we least expect it, when everything looks great and fine.


People come and go. Some remain long in our lives and then disappear, far away from our eyes. And why did they walked away? Maybe they went to move on. In life there are too many 'maybe' and 'probably'. Likewise, friends come and go, love come and go. 

That's how it goes in life. They were a big part of our lives, they were important people, someone we could not live without, but we we can not keep them by our side if they don't wanna stay. We ask ourselves often: is it our fault? But the fact is that nobody is to blame.Such is life, everyone follow its fate. 

And so the whole of our lives, we meet and lose friends, love, but what remains eternally with us are our memories and the impact that those people made on us. Some people come into our lives and change us for the better, some of them we change for the better, but then comes that moment when each of us walk away. Everything has its beginning and the end, there is a time for happiness, sadness, new love, for life and death. And every end is a new beginning. 


 I have lost so many nice people in my life, and I used to wonder, will they ever come back, will I ever see them again, do they still remember me?Have I done something wrong, have I hurt them unknowingly and made them leave? But then I stopped questioning myself and learned to live with it, (although deep inside I feel sadness and regret 'cause I couldn't keep them in my life) , and I know that even these people I'm close with now will leave one day,or maybe will not walk away, but there is a possibility that I myself will change, or they will change and we will not be so close anymore, won't share same interests, opinions, attitudes, priorities.

And that's sad, but life must go on, with those who have gone or without them. The only thing left are the memories of them, and the impression that they made on us. 

There is also a hope- Maybe they will come back when they realize what they have left behind. But can you wait forever or at least that part of eternity called life? Is something worth of waiting for? That only your heart can tell.. If you have lost someone, someone who took away part of your soul, then you will always hope-they will come back. And what is life without hope, without expectations? All you have is time- it will either bring them back to your life- or maybe, you will forget over the time. Till then you can only live with the memories you shared with them.

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